Friday, March 9, 2012
Today Is, "Straight From Your Gay Best Friend" Advice Day With Bossip...
I appreciate hearing the male perspective on relationships and want to get your break-down of what women can expect from men in the first few months of dating.
Both people are feeling it out to see where it goes, but what behaviors tells a woman that a man is really interested as opposed to just stringing you along?
I’ve been seeing a guy for 2 months. Things were going well – we had mutual interest, respected each other’s space, and had good chemistry. We were taking it slow. But, things got slowed down and he said he didn’t have as much time for me. I got different advice from different girlfriends. Some thought I should just drop the relationship & move on. Others said I should give him some space and keep trying to keep things going on a simmer. I try to be understanding of his needs, but feel like if he’s not investing time, then he’s not invested in the relationship.
How long would you say is a good time to give this a chance? How do I know if he’s not just playing me? And from a man’s perspective, what does it look like when a guy IS interested? – Frustrated
You can read my response, HERE: